QotD

"On the subject of the 'weird and entertaining' vs. 'who we are' debate, I long ago decided that we would all be better off coming to terms with the fact that when it comes to all things erotic, who we are is pretty much weird and entertaining. Pretending you are normal is a huge piece of baggage that you really don't need to carry, and is a huge burden to live with just for the small consolation of not being mocked.

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"So my theory, as flawed as it may be, is that a large number of sexual relationships consist of a pair of people each trying to hide from the other what a perv they are, out of a (possibly justified) fear of judgment. A tragedy on a massive scale, I weep for the non-pervs."

-- idiopath, 2009-09-06